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Monday, March 9, 2009

E01: Beauty or confidence?

My dear students E01,


You have read the article on ‘corset’ and ‘foot binding’ when you wrote the essay.

Based on those two articles, we have learnt about their obsession for the ultimate desire that is beauty.

Is beauty that important? Is beauty what you look for in your dream partner or in yourselves?

Is beauty what that matter most?

Or is it confidence, that you look most for yourselves or, for your dream partner.

So, if you were given the ability to choose between beauty (physical attraction) to confidence (high self-esteem), which one would you prefer?

Beauty or confidence? You can only choose one.

And why you choose it? Why it is important to you?

Let’s discuss.

P/s: don’t forget to answer the poll for this topic (top, at the right corner of this blog).

26 soul(s) who dare to be different comments:

Anonymous said...

For me, they just hurting them self, Without considering the effects on their body. Maybe they think that they will have a beautiful body with doing all that. But for me, the most important thing is how do you love your partner. Because of you she or her is or because of he or her body looks like. That is my opinion. For me,to have a self confidence is more important than to have a beauty looks. The beauty would not last long. Everyone will be getting older and the beauty also will gone. But self confidence will help you with almost everything in this world. It help us to achieve something in our life.So what's the use of the beauty. Sometimes, people will be ego and will not respect others who doesnt have the physical beauty. And because of it, people will forgot other people feeling.

Jeremy Ashley Said
EA08115

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum and good morning to all..
For this comment, we need to choose whether we prefer the beauty or the confidence.
Firstly, I would like to tell about my understanding about the meaning of beauty and confidence.
I think beauty is the word that shows the physical appearance of something or someone. Its also show the attraction of the thing or someone towards other person when look at it. Sometimes, people will admired the things or the person because it will rise others desire and come out with love.
Confident is a word that shows the adjective of a person which is high self-esteem. It shows how brave the person is and also show the person have the courage to take action by itself.

As for me, the beauty is not important as confidence. Firstly, this is because when the person is only beauty but have no confidence inside him or herself, it will mess up thing such as the person will not be able to talk or discuss anything with us without we start it first. This will make both feel uncomfortable when seeing each other. So, its not a good way to have a dream partner like him or she and also for ourselves.
Secondly, when the person only has beauty and no confidence at all, he or she will not able to present in front of others. This is because they have no courage and bravery to talk in front crowd. They will feel uneasy and the fear will take over the place.
Finally, if the person only have confidence, he or she will easily be recognized by others. This is because, for me, when the person can talk and communicate to others easily and confidence when talking, others will pay more attention towards he or she. So, the beauty is not the most important than confidence.
For the conclusion, the confidence is the most important things than beauty. Thus, people need to improve their confidence rather than improving the beauty that shouldn't be done for Islamic people.
"PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT"

zack_klate(^_^)

Mohd Bukhari Bin Salleh said...

Mohd Bukhari Bin Salleh
EA08089

Beauty or confidence?

Well,for me it's depend on the situation.What i can say is beauty is very important in human life.Every single person on this earth want the beauty.But it will come to us in different way.For some people,the beauty will come directly to their physical attraction and that's their asset to be famous.

But for others,the beauty is coming from another way such as the confidence.I had a friend,a girl,what i can say,in early day at secondary school,this girl is never had the opportunity to get the attraction of the boys maybe because her attraction of physical did not match the criteria of the boys,but then when she started join the debate and public speaking,with a lot of confidence lies in her speech,well suddenly i felt that the beauty is coming through her,so that's the way of her beauty to appeared.

So what i want to say is,beauty is an abstract word,every person have their own meaning of beauty,so for me,which one will i choose between beauty or confidence,absolutely confidence will be my main choice.Just i said earlier,the beauty will come just from your confidence.

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum and good day everyone.

Beauty or confidence?This is a quite interesting topic.But for me,i will choose confidence.It remind me what my school teacher says,confidence is a basics of your survival both at work and at home and it's also will forms the basics of everything else in your world.

Why i say confidence important than beauty?We can see that a confidence person gets all attention.People like to be around and look up them because they believe in themselves and have the courage to solve any problem and deals with anything that thrown in their way.Person who has a confidence also can be a better friends and partners.They are often better to separate their time between work and family.This will allow for more balance and harmony relationship with family and friends.

So confidence is the most important than beauty.For us as a person who want to achieve personal and professional success,we need confidence to achieve what we want not necessary beauty.

Anonymous said...

beauty and confident?
Which one that are important. In my opinion, i think that between the two of them, i prefer to choose confident. beauty is not what you look like but it most of what you think of. Have you ever heard a said that say 'Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder'Beauty is something that very subjectives. mybe you and your friends view about beauty is different. But confident is something inside yourself. People always says that once you are beautiful, then you will be confident. For me, it is yourself who decide whether you are confident or not. it does not have any matter with your beauty. Maybe beauty is one part of that. But trust me, even you have beauty but you didn't have courage in yourself to express your beauty, then your beauty is just a waste. In finding my dream partner, i better find someone that have confident in himself rather than someone with good looking but when talk in front of others he can faint. Can you imagine your dream partner shaking and nervous when proposed to you. sure you don't want someone who propose to you in that way. You will feel not secure with his love right.It is not important to find the beauty one but cannot give you happiness. Better for you to find someone that can give you happiness and you will feel comfortable by your side.

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum and good evening everyone

Beauty or confidence?
Which one you will choose?
First of all, i would like to enlighten on how person judge the words beauty and confidence. Some people said that confidence has nothing to do with looks as beauty do. You can be confident about your looks, but that's not all there is. Being beautiful is about loving yourself, make yourself more attractive and smart by dressing up yourself.
Before,i had read the story about a man who has a big nose and he used to be really self-conscious about his nose.He thought he had the absolute worst nose on the Earth.He wouldn't smile because it made his nose even bigger.Then his mom told him that a real friend will not choose a friends by judging his appearance.So he started smiling and showing confidence,and you know what,he made new friends,and he was so suprised that his life change to the happiest life.I never say that beauty is not important at all,but if Allah give us how we have now, just be thankful.Just taking care of our body,make sure its always clean and health,it is enough.Gained a ton of confidence and can be happy is better than suffering yourself to get the beauty.

Anonymous said...

Beauty or Confidence?

Beauty or confidence? Beauty is a characteristic of a person, place, object, or idea that provides a perceptual experience of pleasure, meaning, or satisfaction while confidence is a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best for a particular person. If I only can choose one of these characteristic, then I may set confidence as my choice. Why I choose confidence? There are many reasons behind the bush. Let’s check out together…

Firstly, confidence is playing an important role for a student in their journey to success which in other word is called self-confidence. Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every aspect of our lives, yet so many people struggle to find it. People who lack of self-confidence might find it difficult to become successful. Besides, self-confidence may also help to shape out a smart appearance or outlook of a person and meanwhile help them to perform well in whatever task that they are work on. For example, a person who equipped with self-confidence may come out with an excellent presentation as they believe on their own ability.

Self-confidence perhaps is one of the important aspects that a student should be equipped with. I as a student, self-confidence is very important as can help to built up a great personality of myself. With ourselves equipped with self-confidence, we will be more willing to take risks and go to extra miles to achieve better things. Thus, we will be more easily to hit our target of everything. On the other hand, confidence is also very helpful once we need to speak up or present in crowd. We may have more courage to speak up and can speak confidently in front.

In short, low self-confidence can be self-destructive, and it often manifests itself as negativity. Nevertheless, self-confident people are generally more positive as they believe in themselves and their abilities, and they also believe in the wonders of living life to the full. So, which one are you guys prefer? To be less self-confidence or more self-confidence? We should choose the correct path for ourselves to the journey of success. Be more confident – It’s the key of the success!

Anonymous said...

Beauty or confidence?

If I were to choose between beauty to confidence, I do not know how to choose. As you know, everyone loves beauty, especially in the physical appearance. They will do anything and everything in order to make themselves look pretty from head to toe. When a person looks pretty, he/she will have confidence in whatever he/she does. Therefore, I think I can’t live without any of these two features. When I think myself look pretty, I will have confidence. However, if I were given the ability to choose between these two, I would choose beauty because I think confidence comes after beauty. Beauty can make a person looks attractive. When a person is praised for his/her beautifulness, that person’s confidence will automatically increase and this is also why some people becomes ego and over-confident.

I believe that the first thing most people will look for in their dream partners is their physical appearances. If a person looks ugly, no one would be attracted or even bother to look at that person no matter how high his/her self-esteem is. When I am attracted by my dream partner’s physical attraction, then I’ll try to understand his beauty on the inside. However, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. In reality, it’s more important to look for a dream partner with good characteristics. A person’s beauty is more important on the inside rather than on the outside.

Last week, as you know our essay test was about the ‘corset’ and the ‘foot binding’. In this era, we definitely would think that people who wore corsets and did foot binding were crazy and it’s totally nonsense. If we were brought back to those days life, I believe that 90% of us would do exactly like what they did just for one reason, which is to look beautiful and attractive. Although it was very torturing and suffering to wear the corsets and foot binding, we could see that their obsession in ignoring the pain and suffer just to achieve their ultimate desire, that is beauty. Therefore, I think beauty really matters most and I would prefer beauty to confidence in my life.

mira syuhada said...

NOOR AMIRA SYUHADA EA08042

As a human,we are created to love something perfect.It is hard to choose the things we desired.But for me,i choose beauty.
For me,beauty is not just a physical attraction.This is because beauty is very subjective.How can we said to somebody,he or she
not beautiful.Human is very beautiful come from the Creator.

Yes,i agree with Phooi Theng.Beauty can lead to confidence.People sometime feel ugly,because of that they don't have confidence.
In my opinion,we should appreciate what we have.Nothing wrong to feel we are beautiful.Thank to god because we are born in perfectness.
As i read in many magazines or motivation books,it is suggested to us to give ourself an award.Easy exale is,wear beautiful cloth.Just it,
simple right?

From that,we will feel the confidence when we are in front of peoples.As a human being,people loves beauty,so it is a support for us to
build confidence.At the same time,we build up the internal beauty.As a result,we will have a very good personality.

It is not an advantage for us if we are untidy person.People evaluate people from appearance fisrt.Even we always said,'don't judge a book
by it's cover',but people love to do that.
So that,i prefer to choose beauty for it's role in life.

Anonymous said...

Good day to everyone! Beauty or confidence which one more important? What is the different between them? Beauty is a characteristic of a person's appearance, place, object, or idea that provides a perceptual experiance of pleasure, meaning, or satisfaction. While the confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective.

If i'm giving a chance to choose between beauty or confidence, i'm more prefer to choose confidence. This is because confidence can be build from ourself. If you have confidence, you can do everything very smoothly for example you are sales men and can intro your product with confidence, the customers will more trust to you and buy your product. Besides, confidence is the inner beauty there can last forever. While the beauty is just the physical appearance, and one day will become old and look ugly.

As a conclusion, i prefer confidence is more important compare to beauty. And i also will choose a partner which are full of confidence because this just can give me a bright future and stable life.

Anonymous said...

Ching Wai Hoong, EA08019, E01

Undeniably, from the two articles, they are obsessed by the ultimate desire of beauty. In reality, we do hard to get or choose an absolutely correct choice either beauty or confidence. Perhaps, in different aspects, for different people, the choice for sure is discrepant. I can be sure that there is a big part of people will take beauty as their main choice and just leave few to choose confidence is the main part. There is no right or even wrong to do a decision for this interesting or meaningful topic. Beauty is a quality present in a thing or person gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind. A great amount of youngsters are willing to sacrifice everything, indeed, their money, time or even precious beloved one due to ‘chase’ the word of beauty. Indeed, the physical-look or physical attraction is a vital part as a representation of appearance for a person. Some of us may also get an idea, if a person was without a good appearance, then who would be going to concern his or her internality (internal beauty)?
The role of beauty to represent a person’s externality is really essential; this is one of a part thing that we cannot deny it at all.

What I have mentioned is, there is discrepancy among the humans, of course the aspect of thinking especially. For me, self-esteem or which is called confidence plays the main role in all my life. I really need to know, there are how many people is considered beautiful, pretty or handsome or else congenitally? If a person without appearance or externality, is he or she not ought to come to this world? Impossibly, all of the externality is fixed and it is fated. Inevitably, me, is one of the guy who has no extraordinary appearance, that is the reason why I alter my internality and self-esteem, to make myself more nicer and better. I am not going to have a perfect or extraordinary dream partner, if that person was good in personality and characteristics, no matter that my dream partner is very outstanding or very ordinary, it is not a big deal again.

Self-esteem or I call it self-confidence in better to understand and clarify. Try to think, if a girl was very pretty and had a perfect externality, unfortunately, she had no confidence to speak or talk in front of public induced to be silent herself, then how are you going to evaluate the “attraction” from that girl? It is hard to get a corresponding answer. On the other hand, if a boy had just a very ordinary look, but he was confident to himself no matter go to wherever and whenever, he believed that his externality was the God to vouchsafe to him and full of gratitude to his parents. Then, how about your opinion now?

A person full of deep confident can refresh other people and they will evaluate him or her in other aspect but it is not thoroughly dependent to the physical attraction. Confidence can build up someone with perfect and excellent personality and also internality. A person who full of confident, I can be sure and certain that he or she can achieve his or her dreams and aims out of the fixed range or limitation!

For the last, I am certain my choice, confidence of someone is more essential and precious!

Anonymous said...

Beauty or confidence??

First of all, before I state my decision, I would like to brief what do I think on beauty and confidence. Basically, beauty is a subjective description as everyone have different opinion on how they describe the beauty of things or person. To me, I will consider the beauty not by judging the book by its cover. So, I would definitely say that confidence is very important and the one I look most in myself and so for my dream partner. This is because confidence may enhance the beauty of a person as it shows their ability to face any challenge. It also help us not to be awkward when we are facing the crowd. It is normal if you are not beautiful but you have a very high self confidence rather than having beauty without confidence. As a conclusion, beauty comes with confidence. The confidence without beauty is normal but in contrast, beauty can’t survive without confidence.

Anonymous said...

Hello there....We meet again here, in the exclusive new topic. Well, beauty or confidence? Quite interesting right? For me, i would prefer confidence. You know why? Because, i believe that when there are confidence, automatically there is a beauty inside our self. This is because confidence may enhance the beauty of a person as it shows their ability to face any challenge. So, do not be afraid, just be yourself. There are a power of beauty in yourself. The important things are we must be confident in every single pieces of our way.

Anonymous said...

It was very confusing between choosing beauty and confidence. As a normal person normally they will choose both because as a human we are care for our look such as beauty. For example, girls will always think that having beauty then can only build up confidence for herself. Is it correct if using this method? (sorry to those of disagree this method). Because of beauty so in long time ago, foot binding was introduced to all of girls. It is painful for the girls, it just make them suffer and pain because wanna to be beauty only. Change to another point. Personal confidence is important among all of us because it will let others people respect to you. We are scared living in no confidence life and have to facing many types of peoples because we are shy to do it. Due to instruction said can only choose one so I decide to choose CONFIDENCE is important than beauty.

Confidence is important for all of us because it can make yourself to be high self-esteem. Try to think clearly, in our life we have used confidences since we are small again. In school life, is it any miss beauty or handsome guys will be chosen as representative for school? The answer is NO! Compared to confidences it will be used more among students. When we participant some activities such as giving speech, leads students, as a representative of school all is based from individual confidence. If you lack of confidence, how you continue your speech? How to lead the student so that can get respect and esteem from them? How to perform well for your school? All kind of this cases need confidence compared to beauty. It is nothing related to beauty also.

People was mention that beauty can be build up based from confidence. If you are a person who are confidence, are you care about critics from others? You will feel like living without too much worries compare to those of think beauty is very important. It is because you can think widely that reasonable than beauty to others.

As a conclusion, what are you waiting for? Quickly find out the way to build out your confidence. Let your confidence can be continuous so that you can handle up many problems by yourself in your coming future.

Anonymous said...

Assalamualikum.Hello!!

In my opinion, confident is more important than beauty. Actually people who have confident is more beautiful than someone beauty. Confident is something you can improve everyday without use money. There are many ways to improve our self to be confident. It free of charge. Compared with beauty, we need to use lots of money to look beautiful. We need to buy accessories to wear to look beautiful. Beauty is not everything. Beauty just a packaged. But if we do not have confident to communicate or social with another people, that the bad things in our life.

In our field, as enggineer, company always find someone that have confident in many aspet especially in communication. beauty in not the main thing in enggineering field. So try to be more confident to look beautiful.

Anonymous said...

Beauty and confidence? I have a great laugh on myself because I am such a greedy person. Both are what I choose and what I have been looking for. I know that it is almost impossible and difficult to be achieved but this is what I have always wanted to. And for the sake of blogging here, I have made up my mind to choose beauty as what I am looking for. The word beauty has become attached to our life nowadays.

I believe everyone is choosing the most beautiful attire, most beautiful furniture, most beautiful house and not to forget the most beautiful life partner. Hmmm. Actually as for me, confidence will only exist if we have beauty (physically attractive). By being good looking one will automatically get the confidence that he or she has wanted too. When in public, the first thing that we look into is the physical appearance of oneself. So, I really want to have beauty in my life as compared to confidence.

Beauty can bring me happiness, the feeling of warmness, loveliness and most importantly the word confidence. Everyone has their own opinion and also point of view. Nothing is totally right or wrong. Some might not agree with my decision to choose beauty as what I have most wanted to but some do agree. No matter which is your choice, the most importantly is do what you think it is right, give you benefits and also brings no harm. Beauty and confidence are equivalent on how you think and look on yourself.

Anonymous said...

Beauty and confidence?
In my opinion, I think that confidence is more important than beauty. This is because confidence can lead someone to become attractive. For example, when looking Wong Jun Yuan present in front of class, all classmates will been attracted. This is not because he is handsome. This is because confidence he present in front. Confidence is something that cannot buy. It only can build by yourself. A confidence people can accept or face the fact of failure and try again until success. For the people who are lack of confidence, when he or she face a trouble. He or she will try to run off from it. Confidence is important to me as I am someone that lack of confidence. Although beauty is important, it is a physical attraction that cannot last longer.

Anonymous said...

BEAUTY OR CONFIDENCE??

Beauty??...it is a subjective element.Beauty can be appears in many different part and situations.For me you are beautiful if you are kind, friendly, easy going and others good attitude. can you imagine if you so perfect beauty as prince or princess but the attitude as bad as a criminal,what a waste beautiful...right?
But depends to persons,different person different opinion. It's based on what sides that we are view.If you have beauty without confidence it's means nothing.I agree with Aida's statements;beauty comes with confidence. The confidence without beauty is normal but in contrast, beauty can’t survive without confidence.
Confidences is needed when we are doing something. Something that we doing become more perfect if its going with confidences. When we are confidences, the beauty comes by itself without we forces it.it can call nature beauty.nature beauty is something that we need to take care as long as we need to be easy in everything.
as conclusions, i prefer to choose confidences than beauty.

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum...

Beauty or confidence?Well,it's a good question.For me,the most important thing that we must have in ourselves is confidence.With confidence,people we see how beauty we are. But,do people will see the confidence in the beauty?I don't think so.This is because,beauty is not everything.

We must remember that beauty is not permanent.It will change when we become old.But,confidence?It always with us.It never leave us although we become old.

So,it's true that confidence is important than beauty.Confidence is needed to do everything.For example,when we want to do the presentation.It's need the confidence,not the beauty.With confidence,we can make the thing more perfect.

So,as the conclusion,i will stand for confidence.Go confidence!

Anonymous said...

Beauty or confidence?

I thought about this a week ago but until now it seems that i still cannot make any decision. As for me, both beauty and confidence are equally important. There are times in some situations beauty is needed to have confidence. But in other times, confidence is more needed to have a natural beauty.

How hypocrite i am if i said that beauty is nothing compared to confidence. To all the ladies out there, i want to ask each of you a simple question. Do you ever go to classes or hang out without looking at a mirror first? You would answer no right? why it this happening? in point of view, i think when we looked into the mirror and feels okey about it, so we would gain confidence to walk out. But if we were rushing and we we are out of time to take a glimpse into the mirror, we would walk out and find something that can make a mirror. Then, we will stop for a while to start touching up or else we would busying ask our friend that "do i look okey?"
I couldn't help it but i think I'm right. So, how can you all said beauty is nothing than confidence? beauty brings out confidence.

But in certain cases, when we feels nervous about something, i choose confidence over beauty. Beauty cannot help us to answer interview's question confidently or even speak fluently in front of public. Therefore, there are times like this when confidence is needed to be nurtured within us. so that, beauty solely won't help us to have a great confidence.

Conclusively, i stress that both beauty and confidence are equally crucial to brighten up our lives.

Anonymous said...

Hi everyone...

Based on the question, beauty or confidence, which one is important?Hmm... its hard to answer because both are important.However i would like to choose confidence as the most important character that we must have in our self.Why?here are the reasons.
self-confidence is one of the aspect that people will look at us.For example, if we are in a place that is so strange to us, we have to find friends.So, with self confidence we will be brave to greet unknown people and then being their friend.For those who study in overseas they must have strong self-confidence to help them to survive in other country.
So, based on some example above, do you think that we can survive in this life just depend on our beauty?I believe that we will be beautiful if we really confidence that we are beautiful.Yes, it might be easy for us to attract people to be our friends based on our beauty but does the friendship will be forever?Without confidence in ourselves, it must be hard for friends to be confidence with us.That's why the friendship will not last forever.One more thing, beauty is just for a while whereas confidence will last until we die if it is well build in our self.As a conclusion, confidence is more important than beauty because beauty will comes after we have the confidence.

.::yAsOthA::.(eA08078) said...

Good day everyone...

Well, it is a very interesting topic to discuss here. Beauty or confidence?

First of all, let us see what is beauty and what is confidence? Beauty is a characteristic of a person, place, object, or idea that provides a perceptual experience of pleasure, meaning, or satisfaction. Whereas confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Actually it is very hard to choose between beauty and confidence because both criteria is important to a person. Each person have their own beauty and own confidence.One without any of one criteria is not a complete person.

For me, If I am ask to choose between beauty and confidence, I would rather choose confidence.To make my comment more stronger, I did a survey among few students from UMP regarding this interesting issue and to my expectations, the answers was quite interesting because all are from different aspect of thinkings. 99% of them said they would choose confidence rather than beauty. Why I choose confidence is that to live a good life one must have confidence rather that beauty. Not all those are beautiful are successfull and those without confidence are successfull either. High self-esteem is one of the important criteria that really shapes the humans characteristics.

It is true that beauty can boost one's self-confidence to be more greater, but without any confidence in a person, the beauty is nothing. All of us have heard that confidence can lead us to the success path, but have anyone have heard that beauty can lead to a success path?? Its very clear that confidence is the one that is most important than beauty. Everyone are beautiful in their own ways, but it the confidence that we really need to ease to be lead a successfull and happy life.

Nur Shahida bt Nawi (ea08112) said...

hello everyone...
first of all, when i see from the bar chart,confidence is most than beauty. there are only 11% who vote beauty and 88% vote confidence. for me, i also will choose confidence. why? let see my opinion...
scope beauty is subjective. but, from this blog, beauty is only consider to face. as we know, this beauty is not everlasting. it will gone when we are old. to maintain it, we should do many ways like plastic surgery, by using cosmetic or botox. this all only waste our money! that is why i choose a person who has confidence as my dream partner.
we cannot buy confidence. it come automatically in ourselves and become everlasting. save our money and not be pressure about it. with confidence, we can do any work without get any problems.
its true beauty give first impression to the audience, but it not use if we don't have confidence. i think, better i have confidence than beauty.

SITI SYAZWANI BTE RAZI (EA08071) said...

hi everyone!!!

Beauty or confidence? It is quite interesting, right? Here, it state that beauty is physical attraction and confidence is a high self-esteem. So for me, I would choose confidence than beauty. This is my chosen because the more confident you are, the more beautiful you will be.

We know that beauty is not everlasting because everyone will be getting older and the beauty also will gone. Besides, although someone have good looking which can attract other people to close her or him, but it not use and nothing if we don't have confidence in ourselves.

While the confidence build automatically in ourselves and become everlasting although we got old. So, I choose a confidence person as my dream partner because confidence may enhance the beauty of a person which it shows their ability to face any challenge and can lead someone to be more attractive.

As a conclusion, I think confidence more important than beauty in my life...

ahmad fathi said...

hello everyone...

for your information, this topic is quite though for me.. however, i, as a student have been force by my lecturer to comment this topic..

for me, i would choose beauty.. this is because confidence is coming from beauty... beauty can make people more confident.. even, if we want to be a presenter, beauty is important than confidence.. that is because, beauty is the first impression from the other people..

so.. that's all from me..
thank you..

Goh Swee Tian EA08100 said...

Beauty or Comfidence?

For me the perfect match is self comfidence.Physical appearance such as beauty cannot maintain after ten or twenty year.If u choose beauty as your partner, can u accept that beauty?
In opinion, self comfidence will be my perfect.Self comfidence can attract people attention.It also can approve that he or she got something special that can attract so many people.After that ,u will found out that you wan to know more about he or she.This feeling come after self comfidence.This will be the stater of your true love.
On the other way,beauty also can be observe from self comfidence.If you observe people seriously doing their work.You seen other meaning of beauty.It is different from appearance beauty.Different people will have different thought.Different people will choose their own thinking(beauty and comfidence) as their partner.Beauty and comfidencce can be observe from many way.It is just depend on us.